As mentioned in my previous blog
post about geeks, there tends to be a stereotypical image that the individual is
a computer geek, loves games, white, male, straight, probably overweight, wears
glasses, and lacks fashion sense. This typical image is wrong, because not all
geeks are computer geeks in contrary to the mainstream portrayal of geeks. We
can be math geeks, fashion geeks, art geeks, and yes, you can be a computer or
a gamer geek too. And no, not all geeks are men. Though the word geek has been
reclaimed all around recently, stigma still lies somewhere, especially for the gamer geeks.
Being an art geek could be seen
more positive than being a gamer geek. As a person who is enthusiastic about
their passion for art, they can maybe build a career from there and become
famous some day. Or perhaps, they can learn to design a couple things and
generate great revenue. In contrary to a gamer, there are more negative
connotations than positive. Does “addicted to art” sound better or “addicted to
games”? According to a thread asking how women perceive men who play games,
a fraction of women mentioned that meeting a male who play games discourages
them from continuing social contact. They view gaming as an immature hobby,
have an immature personality, lazy, neglecting their family and friends,
neglecting their social life, jobless, and a loser. This kind of stigma really stems
from the idea that, in our society, only children play games and adults should
move out of their gaming period whenever they graduate from college, find a
job, take on adulthood responsibilities, and contribute to society. By
remaining as a gamer in adulthood, he or she is being associated with the stigma
of a gamer. They are neglecting their responsibilities and wasting their productivity
on games. Unfortunately, if you are seen as a female gamer, you are more likely
to receive twice the stigma compared to a male. According to the same thread
mentioned earlier, a couple women replied, saying that as a female gamer, many
men have turned away (and off) and thought they were crazy. There isn’t much surprise
when we hear a man playing games, but why do people look at women in
bewilderment when they tell people that they are gamers?
As simple as it sounds, the
reason why people are amazed at the existence of female gamers is because they
are seen as deviant. Women are not supposed to play games, and most games are
not intended for women. The gaming industry has been targeting always men as
their population, hence why gaming is generally associated with the male gender.
Not much is spoken about women who play games in the media, and in fact, even encourage
the idea that women do not play games. This myth is indeed a lie, as 40% of
women do play games and women over 18 “represent nearly twice as much of thegamer population, than do boys age 17 or younger”.
Additionally, women tend to play more casual games and men tend to play more
hard core games like action or fighter games. Are these facts true or rather
only socially constructed? We do know that women have typical gender roles such
as taking care of the family, hence why people discourage women from playing
games and find other kinds of leisure that will not step on the boundaries of a
male-dominated leisure of gaming.
Whenever a female enters the
gaming world of men though, not only they receive the stigma of being a gamer,
but they also receive the harsh stigma of being a female gamer. As one of our
readings “Everyone Knows Who The sluts Are” by Dunn have mentioned (as cited in
Thio, Calhoun, and Conyers, 2010), whenever a behavior is not compatible with “old
meanings”, such as having sex when you are not copulating, a female is seen as
a slut unless she is in a relationship under modern context. In our situation as a female gamer, you
are either seen as a slut, fat, or ugly. The
female gamer does not correspond with the typical image of a male gamer (the “old
meanings”) and she has crossed the boundaries of this traditionally male-oriented
hobby. In order to shame the individual and to hopefully force the individual
back into their proper space like the shaming theory suggests by Braithwaite (as
cited in Thio, Calhoun, and Conyers, 2010), labels are thrown in hopes to
re-integrate the individual back in the society (the norms, such as pushing women back into their narrow private spaces) and her gender has
become her master status among the gamer community. “You can’t be just you”, describes a female game designer about the stigma and pressure as a female gamer by over achieving in games and representing her group to defeat the stereotype that women cannot and should not play games. The stigmatization of being a woman
gamer can be counterproductive, as Braithwaite also describes, because the
individual is being degraded. There is also a potential risk that the female
gamer may even internalize the negative connotations of the labels as the labeling
theory suggests and adopts the idea of self-fulfilling prophecy (as cited in Thio, Calhoun, and Conyers, 2010) and learned self-helplessness from dealing with the shaming and vicious attacks from the community.
Additionally, the population of female gamers is slowly rising and the male
gamers (and their masculinity) may have felt threatened by the increasing presence of female gamers,
especially if their skills are more superior compared to males. Unskilled female
gamers are forgiven since they are acting “like girls” by being horrible at
games, as the comic above by The Oatmeal suggests,
but if a woman has skills that may match those of men (which is deviant), the male
dominant group’s position in the gaming world will feel threatened. This idea
has been specifically mentioned by the movie Tough Guise. A part of the film mentions minority groups who are questioning
the authority of white straight men in our society and how the dominant group
responds to these threats by creating subtle messages that still reinforces
their traditional values in the media, thus creating a backlash against such revolutions.
The topic of queers, feminism, and Blacks (and other minorities) are constantly
used for the sake of humor. “Woman, go back in the kitchen and make me a
sandwich!” or "Tits of get the fuck out!" are one of the sexist jokes we hear often in the gaming community. Just
as there is a comedian making fun of feminism to skew the true purpose and
value of feminist ideas, the same behaviors are seen in the gaming community
where male straight gamers are attacking women with jokes or with sexually violent
comments for being more skilled than the average male or by simply being present in the
community to maintain their power as the dominant group. As reflective of our current
societal gender issues, women are just as prone to sexual harassments in Online
games as well.
“I was fielding comments that
were sexually violent – hoping I’d choke on semen, that my vagina would be
stapled shut, that they’d rape me and force me to keep the baby and kill us
both. That they wished me dead.”
– Author of Apple Cider Mage blog
The dehumanization and demeaning
comments towards women are nothing new, especially women working in the sex
industry. In the film “Live Nude Girls Unite!”, Exotic
dancers are seen as deviant since their nature of work is seen as morally
wrong, hence their work rights are very minimal, especially since their
industry is run by men (just as how the gaming industry is controlled by men as
well, only 11% of women are in the workforce).
Additionally, violence against women seen in games is prevalent as well, just
as we see violence against women in the sex industry. The idea that sex and
violence sells is true according to our societal values. As a result, no
sympathy is given for sex workers (or female gamers) and they are subjected to
sexual harassments as if they deserved it. “These women wouldn’t have to face
degradation if they hadn’t done these kind of behaviors”, as most people
think when using the achieved versus ascribed argument.
Fortunately, the gaming industry
is starting to steer their attention towards women’s needs and other minority
groups, taking into consideration that, yes, there are more than just male straight
gamers. A Canadian game developer company, BioWare, released a popular fantasy
role playing game called Dragon Age 2. The outstanding thing is that they have introduced
a revolutionary idea to enable the possibility for their players to have sex
with anybody in the game, and that includes having relationships with characters
of the same sex. The company’s main goal is to show that any relationship is possible,
and not simply catering to the preferences of the white straight male. In
response to this deviant act by this prominent gaming company, a player was
outraged by their deviant behavior. The player, speaking as “the white straight
gamer”, spoke about the company ignoring the main population of straight male
gamers by implementing a same-sex relationship function in game. He insisted that
the company should focus in pleasing the white straight male population. A spokesperson from BioWare proceeded to stand up for the queer population and the minority, stating that being a straight male gamer is not a privilege to them. Privilege should be
shared with everybody in order to reduce imbalance between groups because
minorities tends to be ignored and oppressed. Being part of the majority does
not mean that these people are “right” and should be prioritized, and this is
what exactly Johnson points out in his article “Privilege, Power, Difference,
and Us” (as cited in Kimmel and Ferber, 2009). If game companies are continuing
to ignore the minorities in their gaming population, then they are taking the
path of least resistance because risks are minimized and their decision will
not be seen as deviant by mingling with the dominant straight while male group.
In addition to a change of target
population, there is also a change within the company. Slowly, there is an
increasing number of female developers and that means good news. By having more
women in the gaming industry, the opinions from women will finally be valued
and heard. For example, in the upcoming release of Guild Wars 2, a Massive
Online Multiplayer Role Playing Game, some of the people who were in charge of
character designs were women. The “it’s a female, just put breasts on it”
mentality will be challenged as these women create characters who look more
natural, playable, and less sexualized. Usually, we tend to see oversized
breasts and a thin waist on female characters no matter their race in games but in Guild Wars 2, these female developers did not add oversized breasts to
their female feline characters. In fact, they have none, just like felines in
nature. “The result is the female of the Charr species looking every bit as
powerful and deadly as the male, but with a more feminine appearance (at least,
feminine according to human standards)”, writes Brinstar from the blog Acid for Blood.
Warning: Video below contains profanity. Viewer discretion is advised.
I also would like to remind viewers to watch this clip with a touch of humor.
Resistance: These ladies get revenge.
These kind of positive messages
from BioWare and the slowly growing female workforce in the gaming industry is indeed
encouraging. More companies need to step into that new and refreshing direction to get away from out-dated ideas and myths.
Often, we hear arguments such as the industry will not benefit from changing
their target population towards women since they are more “casual”, and that
decision is risking the wealth of the industry. Near the beginning of this post, I did mention that almost 40% of women play games and that number is increasing. So, the female gamer population isn't that small after all. Moreover, who says that non-gaming women will not pick up a game some day to try out this new gaming hobby? What people often forget is
that many behaviors are socially constructed (and not related to one’s gender) in
order to shape men and women into idealized pictures according to the dominant straight white male group. So, is it true that women only like casual games, or is it because they
are being told that games are for boys during childhood and underreport their
gaming style and frequency for the sake of maintaining their safety?
The film is trying to prove the point that exotic dancers are not simply all “whores” and deserve to be thumbed down by the public. What most people don’t realize is that the job as a stripper or a dancer is simply a job, an occupation where a human body is of monetary value, and this has been explained by Wesely, Exotic dancers: “Where am I going to Stop?” (as cited in Thio, Calhoun, and Conyers, 2010). Stripping or dancing is regarded as a role and this role usually does not affect the dancers’ conventional identities, though, they do struggle to keep their identity intact from the stigma. Unfortunately, this stigma of selling their bodies is affecting their human rights and they do not deserve this kind of treatment, which is why the film has spent most of its time showing viewers the dancers’ process of creating a union and gaining workers’ basic rights.
What were the main arguments in support of the thesis?
The profession of dancing behind a glass where customers are paying by the minute is called being an exotic dancer. The key word here is “profession” and “dancer”. But because of their nature of work, the women in the film (and the rest of dancers in our world) are being stigmatized as “sluts” and “whores” simply because they’re getting paid to show their body. Consequently, this stigma and deviant profession has created a horrible working condition that dehumanizes these dancers. They do not have sick days. If they are late to work, their position gets bumped down and will get paid less. Also, people of color are being discriminated and are being put at less favorable shifts because of their skin color. This kind of discrimination also extends beyond skin color as a woman’s hair color or body size are also being weighted. Furthermore, a lot of women depend on this kind of work to feed their children and do not want to lose their job because of discrimination or retaliation (acting “human” and asking for rights).
The point that most people seem to miss is that dancing is an occupation so asking for human rights and to be respected is natural. However, the public stigmatize these workers and will further push them somewhere in a dark corner where we can just close our eyes and pretend they do not exist. Fortunately, there are images such as these to encourage people to separate the role of their job from their real identity as a whole human. They have lives too; some are mothers, daughters, and some are brothers.
How does the thesis of this film relate to the course?
It’s very obvious that exotic dancers are deviant because the nature of their work is considered deviant by the majority. Our naked bodies are sacred and should only be shown to our loved ones. This kind of reminds me of what we have discussed in class regarding non-monogamy: is it possible to have sex without love? I’m sure we can strip down and dance around naked without having any emotional connections with the customers.
Additionally, we should not be sexualizing our body for money because it reminds of another occupation: prostitution. Prostitution is even more stigmatized and deviant beyond our imagination. Having to read Listening to Olivia, the stigma and hardships prostitutes have to go through has permanently damaged my consciousness. Their stories is not something we hear every day since most people don’t even want to know what’s going on in the underworld.
Which arguments/points did you find the most convincing?
I find the part where dancers (or other women) are marching on the streets demanding for working rights very convincing. Exotic dancing is a job, therefore, basic work rights (or human rights at the least) should be appointed. No one should be de-humanized simply because they decide to dance around naked for money. Also, the scenes where the dancers are in a room discussing what they should bargain with their employer is really nice. It really shows us the idea of feminism, where women band together and work towards a goal for equality. This image and notion is not understood and seen by everyone because feminism is still being viewed negatively as “those crazy women”.
Which arguments/points did you find the least convincing?
I’m having a hard time with one point shown in the film. I’m not sure whether I agree with it or not, but it’s inevitable that the average people (or men) favor blond hair, white skin, and big breasts or buttocks. Most companies have a target consumer population and will create products that will cater to their needs, kind of like how dancers are being selected for favorable dancing shifts. But, to be discriminate and refuse someone work because of their natural characteristics is wrong. Unfortunately, companies can always find ways to dodge this complicated issue. If this sounds incoherent, I believe it’s because I’m not sure where I stand on this point.
Choose one argument, point or question that most stands out for you. How would you study this point? Briefly design a research study around that point.
I would like to compare if there are any changes in the stigmatization of sex workers, based on their nature of work (dancer, strippers, and prostitutes). Both male and female will be studied, men are too often forgotten when it comes to sex work and rape. Are dancers viewed as more acceptable nowadays compared to before? I would have to gather data from previous studies and conduct my own to analyze recent data. It would also be interesting to see if sex workers are now more open about their role in their jobs, like telling friends about their occupation.
References
Thio, Alex, Thomas C. Calhoun, and Addrain Conyers. 2010. Readings in Deviant Behavior. 6th ed. Boston, MA: Allyn & Bacon.